Giving Birmingham, New York City, and Portland, Maine An Informational Home

Hi hello good to see you –

I’ve mentioned before that I seem to get a lot of requests for information about three places: Birmingham, New York City, and Portland, Maine. I’ll claim expertise about Birmingham since I’ve lived here for approximately one quarter of a century, but I’m not an expert on NYC or Portland by a long shot. I’ve just visited both places a good bit, and I have some preferences, and I’m always delighted to share those preferences with you. The problem is that I have shared info about all three cities in bits and pieces and lo, over a variety of social media platforms. So when it comes to where can you find my recommendations and reactions and whatnot – well, the short answer is A LOT OF DIFFERENT PLACES.

You’re so welcome.

And that is why, this summer – as I have rummaged through old newsletters and Google docs and etc. to share links with readers and podcast listeners – I have come to realize that I need one centralized place to direct people with their questions.

This blog post is going to be that place. Officially. LOOK AT ME STREAMLINING THE PROCESS.

All righty. Let’s start with the Magic City.

BIRMINGHAM, ALABAMA

– For starters, Melanie and I did a Birmingham city guide for our B’ham live show back in 2024, and we included so many of my favorites. Feel free to peruse that PDF.

– Just to make sure you know where I would stay if I were coming to town: Valley Hotel is a gem. The Grand Bohemian is also fantastic, and there’s a new Residence Inn in Mountain Brook.

– I’m super intrigued by a new boutique hotel called The Painted Lady.

– There are a few new restaurants I would add to our original list: Bayonet (next door to Helen with the same owners), Current Charcoal Grill, Armour House, and Johin’na.

– Just to reiterate: if you leave Birmingham without stopping by the shoe department at Gus Mayer, you’ve done yourself a disservice. I’d put Gus up against any shoe store in the country. I said what I said. :-)

NEW YORK, NEW YORK

– I’ve done a couple of New York round-ups in newsletters. Whether you subscribe to the newsletter or not, you can reference those newsletters for hotel suggestions and info about our most recent trip.

– If you want to see one great show in NYC between now and the beginning of 2026, my vote goes to Just in Time. If you’re in New York between now and September 7th, you really, really need to see John Proctor Is the Villain. Most meaningful play I can remember.

– I get that Times Square has its challenges, but if you’re doing a theater-heavy trip, you can’t beat it for proximity to the theaters. Just put your head down and don’t make eye contact with the people dressed up like superheroes. I felt like the Hard Rock Hotel was a really nice oasis in the middle of the madness. And did I mention that it’s the best hotel air conditioning I have ever encountered?

– One of my Pilates instructors really loves The Michaelangelo, and I’m intrigued by its location. It also looks like they’ve done a recent upgrade / remodel of the rooms, and that’s always nice to see.

– Some friends and I had a really lovely early lunch at Palma a couple of years ago, so I always like to recommend it, especially for a girls’ trip.

Hotel Chelsea remains on my want-to-stay-there list, but I feel like it should be for more of a shopping/sightseeing trip instead of a Broadway trip.

– Just a friendly reminder that The Wallace is DREAMY.

– The Wallace is also just a couple of blocks from the Beacon Theatre, and it’s always a good idea to check out who’s playing at The Beacon when you’re there. My nephew Beck and I saw Tedeschi Trucks Band there last year, and it was magical.

– My friend Kasey and I went to Cafe Carlyle for a dinner show last year, and it was a total blast.

– For central / north Alabama (and some Mississippi) travelers, I highly, highly, HIGHLY recommend Delta’s three-times-a-day direct flights from Birmingham to LaGuardia. The 11 o’clock flight gets you to LaGuardia by 2:15-ish, and you can almost always roll right up to your hotel for 4:00 check-in.

– David and I had the nicest driver on our last trip from our NYC hotel to the airport. He gave me his business card, and I’m gonna put a picture of it here. I’m a big Lyft user, but if you’re traveling in a group, it’s so nice to have someone with a big SUV waiting to pick all of you up at the airport. This chauffeur’s name is David, and he said to feel free to text him to make travel arrangements. I’m going to line him up for when I’m there again in December.

– Finally, I always book shows directly through the show’s website (go to the show’s website, then click on Buy Tickets) as opposed to any third-party site. If something should go wonky with tickets (and that’s never happened to us, btw), I’d like to be able to sort it out at the theater box office.

– Wait – another finally – I always book hotel rooms through a hotel’s website. I don’t use any of the third-party travel sites…there’s usually a mark-up, and again, if something goes wrong with a reservation, I want to deal with the hotel directly.

PORTLAND, MAINE

– David (my husband, not the driver in NYC) works for a company in Portland, so we have had the joy (AND IT IS A JOY) of getting to hang out there a good bit over the last few years. Portland is a charmer, for sure, and it’s also super walkable from downtown to the bay. In fact, we have never rented a car when we’ve been there; David walks from the hotel to his office, I walk around and pop in and out of shops, we walk to wherever we’re going to dinner – it’s just walk-y all around.

– I’ve never stayed downtown in Portland; when I go we always pick a place closer to Commercial Street because that area is where I like to do the bulk of my wandering. My favorite hotels are the AC and, if you want a little extra space, the Cambria.

– I’m not a donut fan in general, but I always, always, ALWAYS go to The Holy Donut in Portland. The blueberry donut should be a requirement for all visitors.

– Another requirement: the Duckfat frites at Duckfat. When I was in Portland earlier this summer (it was the next-to-last stop on my friend Jamie’s birthday cruise), our group-o-travelers made the pilgrimage to Duckfat, and there wasn’t a person in our group who was sad about that. The fries alone are outstanding, but when you add that gravy and those cheese curds? A REVELATION.

– Obviously seafood is a big deal on the Maine coast, but usually D and I will hit a point where we just want a really good burger. Our fave is Butcher Burger. My gosh. MY GOSH. It’s so delicious.

– For seafood restaurants I have a couple of recommendations: Street & Co. and Eventide. Street & Co. is more traditional/now-you-must-crack-open-this-lobster, and Eventide is small plates. Very different vibes in terms of the atmosphere, but the common denominator is really excellent food. David says that Scales is fantastic, too (I haven’t been there, but I’ll take him at his word).

– If you want more of a pub situation, there are tons of options, and I can vouch for the fish and chips at RiRa. Gorgeous views of the harbor, too.

– Love a good lobster roll? Try The Highroller Lobster Co. I’m not a lobster roll connoisseur, but this is a great non-food truck option. There are excellent food truck options all around, though.

– I think Standard Baking Co. is the go-to for really beautiful pastries / breads, and I am a devoted fan of the coffee at Navis Cafe. I’ve done a good bit of writing and/or editing fueled by their caffeine.

– As for shopping – there’s just so, so much – but there are a few places I go every single time: Kate Nelligan, Blanche & Mimi, Sea Bags (I don’t need any more tote bags, but I love looking through all their designs), and the CUTEST kitchen shop, LeRoux Kitchen (I could spend HOURS there).

– Obviously there are all sorts of Portland treasures tucked away all over the city, so when you’re there, be sure to ask some locals about their favorites. D’s coworkers have given us so many great suggestions.

Questions? Leave ’em in the comments like it’s 2008 and blogs are the hottest thing going on the interwebs.

Happy travels, everybody!

The Big Boo Cast, Episode 455

This week Melanie shares all about her fun weekend at the lake, I share all about cleaning out my refrigerator (life is full of glamour and also thrills), and we both share about the season finale of The Gilded Age (spoiler alert: WE ADORED IT).

We also do a quick analysis of groceries we throw away more often than not as well as dig into some of our recent thoughts about plastic surgery. Plus, it’s Melanie’s turn for Five Favorites.

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Happy Trekking snack mix from TJ’s

Trader Joe’s Hot Honey popcorn

Bayonet in Birmingham

Trader Joe’s Greek Yogurt

Trader Joe’s Unexpected Cheddar

Trader Joe’s Unexpected Cheddar spread

Lilo’s Salad

Any Given Saturday on Netflix

Shiny Happy People (season two) on Amazon Prime

The Summer I Turned Pretty on Amazon Prime

The Gilded Age on HBOMax

Phylicia Rasad

Siete Street Corn tortilla chips

We the Free Lotus jeans

Kut from the Kloth Blake super high rise jeans

Anua Heartleaf pore cleansing oil

PJ Harlowe Lainey / Lola set on sale

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The Big Boo Cast, Episode 454

On this week’s episode Melanie and I discuss her flounder gigging experience, my (two!) trips to Mississippi, and a dessert at Bayonet here in Birmingham that absolutely blew my mind. Plus, we talk about some music we’ve loved lately and our shared delight about a new Hollywood couple.

If that weren’t enough (it probably isn’t, but oh well – we tried), it’s my turn for Five Favorites.

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– Trader Joe’s dips ranking part one and part two

That Green Dip

Southwestern Tossed Salad

Bayonet in Birmingham

Pamela Anderson and Liam Neeson

Pamela, a love story

Sonsie skin care

Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir

The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloots

Snipe Hunter by Tyler Childers

Thelma & James – “Canaries in a Coalmine”

Gloria Loring & Carl Anderson – “Friends & Lovers”

Queen of Shadows by Sarah J. Maas

The Gilded Age on HBOMax

Cremo Palo Santo deodorant / antiperspirant

Trader Joe’s butter with garlic, parmesan, and herbs

mattress topper

Lavazza single serve espresso maker (also ordered Cafe Crema pods)

We the Free Camden maxi sweatshirt dress

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The Big Boo Cast, Episode 453

Since our last episode I’ve been to New York City, Melanie has been to Nashville, and we both have stories to share. Truth be told, I sort of nerd it up this week as I share about the Broadway shows we saw on our trip, so please bear with me if that’s not your sort of thing. MRS. HUDSON’S LITERARY CUP IS FULL.

We also talk through a creative idea from Perry, and it’s Melanie’s turn for Five Favorites.

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Just in Time with Jonathan Groff

Jonathan Groff

Shukette in NYC

Angry Alan with John Krasinski

John Proctor is the Villain

Oh, Mary

Tituss Burgess

Death Becomes Her

Ess-a-bagel

Hard Rock Hotel NYC

The Optimist in Nashville

The Summer I Turned Pretty

Billy Joel: And So It Goes

Billy Joel Radio on Spotify

And So It Goes double album collection

My Mom Jayne

The Bear

It’s a Love Story by Annabel Monaghan

Jules eyeshadow stick cream to powder

The Unlikely Country Woman on IG

Chase Me Cosmetics Superglo brightening pads

La Lumiere New York bracelets

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The Big Boo Cast, Episode 452

This week Melanie and I ponder the reality of technically being old enough to be grandmothers (we know it’s a wonderful thing, but we’re just not there yet) – which really makes Melanie’s tale of her recent wedge-adjacent injury all the more timely (and perhaps painful). We also discuss some of the highlights of last week’s SEC Media Days as well as the delight that is the new Billy Joel documentary.

On top of all of that, it’s my turn for Five Favorites.

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Little Em’s Oyster Bar

Cole Cubelic

Roman Harper

Sophie’s IG highlight of Media Days fashion

Lane Kiffin at Media Days

Benjamin Watson

Laura Rutledge

Sark walks out to the Aggie War Hymn

Eli Drinkwitz

Mississippi State is winning at ice cream

State players at Media Days

Ashby at Clemson Insider

The Gilded Age

My Mom Jayne

Billy Joel: And So It Goes

Billy Joel’s Greatest Hits Vols. 1 & 2

It’s a Love Story by Annabel Monaghan

Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir

Queen of Shadows by Sarah J. Maas

Sophie at Birmingham Young Life fundraiser

meat tenderizer

Truly Grass Fed butter

Soren mini shirt dress

Pizzeria Uno frozen pizza

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A Free People Capsule, If You Will

Earlier this week my friend Jamie asked if I had any suggestions for how she could spend a gift card at my beloved Free People.

My response was something along the lines of I AM HERE FOR SUCH A TIME AS THIS.

Why? Well, I love Free People. I wear a lot of Free People stuff. I mean, I enjoy the Amazon dupes as much as anyone, but the dupes aren’t typically sized the same as FP, and one of the great joys of Free People is the fact that a lot of their styles are oversized. If you equate the word “oversized” with “comfortable” – as I do – then you understand why this matters. Free People is also heavily dependent on cotton – they do sweatshirt fabric better than just about anybody – and I love that because that means their stuff BREATHES. I especially love FP for traveling, and when D and I go to NYC next week, one way I’ll combat the heat is by wearing my FP dresses that pretty much just touch me on the shoulders.

All that to say: when Jamie asked if I had some suggestions, I basically blew up her phone for the next 30 minutes while I sent her links. She posted on IG about the lengthiness of my response, and a few of you (“SOOOOOO MANY OF YOU”) (approximately six of you) asked for details.

Here are the details. To be clear, I don’t own all of these things. I don’t even own most of them. But if I were shopping at FP with comfort on my mind, I’d head in these directions. Also, just so you know: if you click on “size + fit” next to each item on the FP website, you will typically find bust measurements for that particular clothing item. It’s a really helpful gauge if you’re trying to figure out if something is true to size, oversized, or a tent in clothing form. :-)

We the Free Mari Muscle Pullover

This is one of my very favorite FP items; I might own it in three different colors. :-) This is my go-to sweatshirt situation when I fly, and while the youths would wear this as a dress, I wear it with leggings. I also wear it year-round. Great with sneakers or Tevas or my favorite fuzzy sandals. A real MVP.

We the Free Planters Garden Pullover

I don’t have this in my closet, but it’s on my wishlist. My goodness it would be so great with some skinnier jeans – even if that’s just a straight leg – and then paired with some boots or some Birks. This would be a fall uniform for me.

We the Free Camden Maxi Sweatshirt

I actually just ordered this in white; I think it could be a great game day option for college football this fall. Plus, I love my other sweatshirt dresses from FP. Just FYI: if you’re an Aggie, the Brandy Wine option looks like a good A&M maroon.

We the Free Camden Sweatshirt

There are dupes for this all over Amazon, but you can’t beat the color selection in the original FP version. This sweatshirt is a little shorter in the front than in the back, and I love the way it looks with baggier jeans.

We the Free Prima Cardigan

I sent this cardigan to Jamie because it’s such a great statement piece. It’s spendy, but it would also elevate any outfit – and you can dress it up or down. A beautiful option if you’re a person who loves a cardigan as a top layer.

We the Free Madison Denim Jacket

This boxy denim jacket is insanely cute. I’d love to wear it by itself with a long skirt or even a pair of shorts. This would be something I’d wear all year long; you could style it a million different ways.

Effortless Ease Tunic

I also just ordered this shirt and can’t wait for it to come in. I ordered it specifically to wear with cut-offs / shorts because in addition to the fact that the fabric is thin, it looks like it would catch a good breeze when I’m walking around outside. :-)

Care FP Slow Down Tee

I can’t stand a tight t-shirt situation, so from that perspective, this t-shirt is a winner. It’s a great length for shorts or leggings, and I love the 3/4-length sleeve for a little sun protection.

Cascade Sweatshirt

The handkerchief hem is a fun variation on a normal sweatshirt, and the notched neckline is another fun detail. This sweatshirt would not be for me because if something doesn’t cover my full and complete stomach area, I’m not interested, but if you like for things to hit you at the waist, this is a thumbs up.

Icon Tee

This shirt is a little shorter than the previous tee I mentioned, which means that (for me) it’s better for shorts and a less likely candidate for leggings. You walk in freedom with how you want to wear it, though. Lots of great colors and fabric that’s oh-so-soft.

Rainy Day Hoodie

Oh that I felt good enough about my thighs to wear this as a dress :-) – but as it stands, I would wear it with leggings. I would also ABSOLUTELY wear it to a Mississippi State sporting event, because that “violet siren” color is close enough to maroon for me. If you love the look of a hoodie with the comfort of a tunic / dress, this is for you. So cute.

We the Free Ella Rollneck Sweater

I’m a fan of a sweater that doesn’t have a big band around the bottom of it, so this rolled hem situation is right up my personal sweater alley. Honestly, it’s a little tricky to think about fall / winter right now when it’s 472 degrees in Birmingham, but the Bubble Tea color is calling my name. So versatile and such a flattering length.

We the Free Denim Dreaming Railroad Stripe Pullover

Everything about this shirt – the stripe, the ruffle down the side of the placket, the big pocket, the cut of the hem in the back – every bit of it speaks to me. The measurements listed in size + fit are wrong, but according to the single review, the fit is oversized if you order TTS. I think it’s worth a try.

Astoria Sweatshirt Tunic

I haven’t ordered this, so I’m not sure exactly how short it is – but if it’s too mid-thigh-ish, I just would throw on tights or leggings this fall and go about my merry way. It looks effortless, and the blue color is also beautiful. Reviews say it’s very oversized, so you might want to read those before you pick a size.

Terry Towel Cardigan

If I bought this sweater, it would be my sole purchase for a season :-) – but man it’s beautiful. And if someone is looking for one memorable piece to go with the clothes they already have, then by diggity this cardigan might just be it. The colors are gorgeous.

Hope y’all have the best weekend – and by all means, be free.

(See what I did there?)

(It’s slightly cringe, but I’m gonna let it ride.)

Love,
SH