Archives for August 2011

They’re Baaaa-ack

Way back in ye olden days of 1993, I discovered something exciting and new at Limited Express. I wasn’t looking for a new fashion crush at the time, you understand; I was just doing a little shopping, and when I walked in the store, I spotted something across the room that instantly appealed to me. And that was it. It was over. It was fashion love at first sight.

The object of my affection?

Palazzo pants. You know, the pants that look a little something like this.

asos

And listen. Once I grabbed hold of palazzo pants, I never wanted to let go. I had them in burgundy. In hunter green. In navy. In a navy and light blue stripe. IN A NONE-TOO-SUBTLE FLORAL PATTERN. Honestly, I was so crazy about them that I continued to wear them for a couple of years after they were no longer welcome in the fashion world, but I LOVED THEM. They were comfy and breezy and flowy and fun. I couldn’t imagine that I’d ever wear straight-leg pants again.

Eventually, however, I decided to turn with the fashion tide. I left my palazzo pants behind and embraced the trends of the late 90s. I bought cargo pants from the Gap. I made sure to have a versatile denim vest. I accumulated a wide array of chiffon scarves. I familiarized myself with capri pants.

It’s the fashion circle of life, people: you love, you grieve, you move on. And I really did move on from palazzo pants. Since I’d already been through a similar break-up experience with acid-washed jeans in the late 80s and Clothes Featuring Horses in the early 90s, I understood the process. It isn’t always easy, but it’s necessary.

Over the last few years I’ve only thought about palazzo pants occasionally. Every once in awhile I’d see a pair of pants with wider legs and think fondly of my palazzo pants from Express, but there was no bitterness there, no sense of unfinished business. There was closure. It even felt healthy to reminisce. Solid. Good.

But.

Early last week I bought a pair of brown wide-legged pants at Steinmart. When I tried them on I thought that the legs seemed a little extra wide, and for a split-second I wondered if they were supposed to be an updated version of palazzo pants. I quickly dismissed the thought, though, because surely someone would’ve told me if palazzo pants were on the fashion horizon again. Surely I would’ve noticed them on websites. Surely I would’ve seen them in stores.

When I got home from Steinmart I thought I’d do a quick search on Google just to check the lay of the palazzo pants land. I didn’t expect to find anything, really – I just wanted to settle the issue once and for all in my mind. So I entered the search term. Clicked enter.

And y’all?

I haven’t seen that many palazzo pants in one place since I went to Mississippi State Homecoming in 1994. THEY ARE EVERYWHERE.

I slowly started clicking on links to make sure that I wasn’t looking at vintage clothing. And I wasn’t. There was link after link after link to all sorts of current palazzo pants offerings. It was overwhelming. It was thrilling. It was confusing. It was sensory overload.

metrostyle

Free People

Anthropologie

asos

Spiegel

Forever 21
(Auburn fans, I’d be ALL OVER these if I were you.)

I immediately called Melanie after I checked out the links, of course. The news was too big not to share it. Plus, I needed to process the recent fashion development. Think it through. Decide if I’m a strong enough person to walk down the palazzo pants path again.

In the end, I’ve decided that I’m absolutely delighted about the resurgence of palazzo pants. I may have to guard my heart a little bit better this time around, mainly so I don’t hold on too long once they fall out of favor again. But I’m definitely going to welcome them with open fashion arms. They’re too flattering and too comfortable to ignore. But I think it goes without saying that if we were talking about stirrup pants, it would be an entirely different story.

What about y’all? Are you a fan of palazzo pants? Happily indifferent? Not going anywhere near a pants leg that’s so flouncy and wide?

Tackling the tough issues,
Me

Do I Like To Talk To Tomatoes? Yes. Yes, I Do.

This summer the little man and I have gotten in the habit of going out to lunch together a couple of times a week. I don’t know how it started, really, but I imagine that it went something like this:

Me: “Hey, you want to go get some lunch?”
A: “Sure, Mama.”

We don’t typically do things with a lot of fanfare around here.

Anyway, our little lunch outings have been one of my favorite things about this summer. We usually end up at the eight year-old’s favorite Mexican place where we split an order of nachos. He drinks Coke. I drink unsweetened iced tea. We talk about whatever happens to come to mind.

Yesterday we had just started to dig in to our chips and salsa when Alex posed a question: “Mama? What are your favorite kids’ shows?” I think he’d been a little surprised Sunday night when he saw me watching Phineas & Ferb OF MY OWN FREE WILL (I am of the opinion that P&F is hilarious), and I guess he was trying to figure out if there were any other current kids’ shows that I like to watch just for kicks.

Which, for the record, NO.

And also for the record: I have never wanted to put any real-life child in time out as badly as I used to want to put Caillou in time out. In fact, I finally had to implement a strict “No Caillou” policy in our house because I COULD NOT TAKE HIS WHINING. At the time Alex was probably 4 or 5 and didn’t understand why Mama would get so angry at the TV, but listen: Caillou wore me out.

However, despite my Caillou aversion, there are some kids’ shows that have found a special place in my heart over the last few years.

1) Phineas & Ferb – It’s laugh-out-loud funny. Smart. Clever. And I’m just waiting for some sort of announcement that it’s going to be a major motion picture.

2) Little Bear – If I hear the theme music for Little Bear, odds are I’m going to say, “Awwwwww” shortly thereafter. There’s such a sweetness and timelessness to it. And Little Bear’s parents are the best.

3) A Snoodle’s Tale – Okay. I know. It’s not technically a TV show. But we have watched a LOT of Veggie Tales DVDs in our house over the years, and A Snoodle’s Tale is my all-time favorite. I can’t watch it without putting my hand over my heart while I sigh with great feeling. And when the narrator says, “A gift that’s demanded is no gift at all” – well, forget it. MAMA’S GONNA NEED SOME TISSUES.

Wait! I have a fourth! And it’s a movie!

4) Finding Nemo – I could watch it a thousand times. OH, HOLD ON. I PROBABLY ALREADY HAVE. But I just adore it.

Are there any kids’ shows or movies that you’re always happy to watch? Or that you might even love more than the kids in your life do?

New.

A few days ago I read something that prompted me to to look up this verse:

“Behold, I am doing a new thing;
now it springs forth, do you not perceive it?
I will make a way in the wilderness
and rivers in the desert.” – Isaiah 43:19 (ESV)

Then I looked at The Message translation (and remember, every time you look up a passage in The Message, the ESV totally rolls its eyes).

“This is what God says,
the God who builds a road right through the ocean,
who carves a path through pounding waves,
The God who summons horses and chariots and armies—
they lie down and then can’t get up;
they’re snuffed out like so many candles:
‘Forget about what’s happened;
don’t keep going over old history.
Be alert, be present. I’m about to do something brand-new.
It’s bursting out! Don’t you see it?
There it is! I’m making a road through the desert,
rivers in the badlands.'”

I couldn’t help but think about all the times when I’ve read this verse (no matter the translation) and been encouraged to stay the course, to trust that God is working in and through my circumstances.

And for a split-second I considered how strange it is that one verse – one little bitty verse – has been so consistently comforting to me.

But then I thought:

Well, that’s because He’s always doing a new thing.

Even when we’ve messed up so badly that we feel haunted – and sometimes taunted – by regret.

He’s always doing a new thing.

Even when relationships seem distant and strained and tense.

He’s always doing a new thing.

Even when sadness and hopelessness threaten to overwhelm us.

He’s always doing a new thing.

Even when we’re frustrated by all the stuff that we just don’t understand.

He’s always doing a new thing.

Always.

Amen.

Some News And Notes And Etc. And So On

So you know that at least once a week I have to write a post that’s nothing more than a random assortment of bits and pieces of information that I’ve been carrying around in my brain.

WELCOME TO THAT MOMENT.

I will number my thoughts in an attempt to appear organized even though I’m actually a total train wreck.

1) The season premiere of Bachelor Pad was last night, and it was three hours long.

I don’t have any analysis of the show or anything like that, but for some reason the combination of America’s financial crisis and the knowledge that a major network allowed Bachelor Pad to be THREE HOURS LONG makes me more certain than ever that we are a nation in peril.

I’m only sort of kidding. Because THREE HOURS, MY WORD.

2) My friend Cindy Beall has written a book called Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration. If you’ve ever had the wind knocked out of you in your marriage – or if you have a friend who’s going through a tough time in her marriage – this book is a fantastic resource. It’s also an encouraging story of healing and redemption. Yay, Cindy!

3) The MouseMail $100 Visa gift card giveaway is up and running for one more week.

4) I think this post by Ashleigh is so beautiful.

5) I don’t do a very good job of mentioning when I blog at other places because, as I’ve said before, I think the internet has to be pretty sick and tired of me at this point. So just consider what I’m about to type as my annual hey-sometimes-I-blog-at-other-places update. First there’s AllAccess, where Melanie and I have both blogged for the last few years. And last week I started writing a some TV-related article-type things for the new entertainment section of Ree’s blog. I’m going to try to do something over there once a week-ish. Except when I only do something every couple of weeks-ish.

So there you have it.

6) Only one more day until The Help! Not that I’m counting or anything.

7) Are any of y’all watching Design Star this season? I think it’s so much better than it’s been the last couple of seasons. And I also think that Kellie’s my favorite. Or maybe Carl. Or maybe Leslie.

Or maybe I just have a lot of favorites.

Family Rules Giveaway Winner

Commenter #228, Shatcher, is the lucky winner of a Family Rules poster from AlexanderCreative.

Congratulations!

And if you didn’t win, I still have some happy news for you. For the next two days you can get 10% off your order at AlexanderCreative. Just use the coupon code BOOMAMA when you check out of their store. They’ve added some great new designs in the last week, so be sure to take a look at all their family-related poster fun.

Thanks so much, everybody – y’all made this giveaway a great one!

Heated

Well, we’re home from the beach.

And that’s pretty much all I know.

The end.

Oh, I’m kidding. Sort of.

We spent most of Saturday in a post-beach haze (I did a lot of staring and gazing, but I like to think that I stared as well as gazed with great purpose and intention). The haze was intensified by the fact that I have decided that I’m going to have to break up with summer. Oh, summer is nice enough and all, and I enjoy summer’s more laid-back pace as well as its kicky family activities, but summer has worn me out with the heat. Honestly, I don’t know if summer really even understands how smothering and stifling it’s been for the last few weeks, but regardless, I’m out. Done. ADIOS, EL VERANO.

I always know that summer and I have had enough of each other when I decide that 68 degrees is a perfectly reasonable indoor temperature (my husband prefers a balmier 74, so the Thermostat Wars, they are alive and well in our house). This shift in indoor temperature preference almost always coincides with a constant certainty that the air in my car must be broken because IT’S NOT COOLING VERY WELL AT ALL, I CAN’T SEEM TO GET IT TO COOL, HEY DID I MENTION THAT I DON’T THINK MY AIR IS WORKING.

The air in the car is fine, of course, but I’m frustrated by the fact that it doesn’t cool as quickly or as sub-Arctic-ish as I would prefer. That is understandable since it’s approximately 115 degrees on the pavement at any given point in time, but there’s just something about August that makes me impatient and demanding with the climate control.

Clearly I am a delight and also a blessing to others.

Yesterday morning we were running a little late for church (well, we were actually running on time, but I’m a fan of running A LOT early, so in my mind we were running late), and by the time I walked in the sanctuary I realized that the area where we normally sit was pretty full. Since D was taking care of some stuff and wasn’t going to be in the sanctuary for a few minutes, I made the decision to break out of our routine and go up to the very top row (CRAZY, SEAT-CHANGING CHRISTIANS! WACKY!). I tried to pick a section where it would be easy for D to walk in and find me, and then I settled in for the service.

Well.

It only took about three minutes for me to realize that I had unknowingly stationed us underneath The World’s Most Powerful Air Vent. Seriously. It was STRONG. And it was CHILLY. And I was so happy, y’all. In fact, there were several moments during the sermon when I could actually feel my hair blowing in the air vent-induced breeze, and at one point during communion I leaned over to my shivering husband and whisper-screamed, “THESE ARE THE BEST SEATS EVER!”

“I-I-I’m v-v-very c-c-cold,” he replied.

And then he sneezed. Twice.

Bless his heart. It can’t be easy living with a woman whose hormones seem to have been driven into BLAZING HOT REBELLION by the August heat.

But listen. That air vent in church was some sweet relief. So maybe next Sunday we’ll pack him a Snuggie or something.

Hallelujah and amen.